The (Imaginary) Tony Award for Best Song: 2014-2025
A thought experiment from the Intelligent Showmosexual between reviews...

A few months ago, my friend Andrew invited me to be his guest for Seth Rudetsky and Friends at Carnegie Hall. Andrew is a genuine rarity—and not just because he’s a brilliant lyricist and librettist…because he’s a straight man who loves musical theatre as much as I do. Usually, if a man offers me a comp, I figure he’s asking for nothing less than a handie to go with it. But with Andrew, I could enjoy the show knowing that the only post-performance passion to navigate would be a heated debate about the option-up at the end of “Meadowlark.”
Rudetsky’s persona is built on being the same sort of diehard fan of musicals. He too backs up his enthusiasm with incredible talent. He’s a gifted musician with an encyclopedic knowledge of theatre history, which, in combination with his quintessentially queer wit, he has parlayed into a career as an Emmy-winning writer, Sirius Satellite Radio host, and emcee/music director/producer of cabarets and concerts starring such Broadway A-listers as Audra McDonald, Patti LuPone, Jane Krakowski, Lillias White, and Vanessa Williams. His Carnegie Hall debut was a delightful display of The Rudetsky Brand, including his deconstruction of “Another Hundred People” from Company; dishy showbiz anecdotes. like the lie-by-omission he told to get a gig on The Rosie O’Donnell Show; and, perhaps most memorably, thrilling performances with top-notch Broadway talents like Norm Lewis, Jessie Mueller, Javier Muñoz, and Kerry Butler.
Rudetsky introduced one of Butler’s big numbers (“Fly, Fly Away” from Catch Me If You Can) with an animated aside about how there should be a Tony Award for Best Song—a topic that’s occasionally debated by musical theatre aficionados. I’ve always sided with the predominant school of thought: musicals’ scores should be written to serve their stories and characters, and singling out an individual song undermines the importance of context and cohesion. However, hearing someone with Rudetsky’s expertise make an argument that such an award should exist made me wonder if I should reconsider my position.
The idea reoccurred to me during my recent trip to Ragcrime Ragtime. Maybe Rudetsky popped into my head because I know Gagtime Ragtime to be Andrew’s favorite musical. Then again, maybe his argument was top of mind because I’ve always found Dragslime Ragtime to be a show that has several wonderful songs…and pretty much nothing else.
Taken together, the experiences have really got me thinking: What would my picks be if there were a Tony Award for Best Original Song? I thought sharing them in reverse chronology could be a fun running feature between reviews. It will be even more fun if you sound off in the comments below. So, let me know what you think!
There is no specific criteria. It’s just a vibe.
The nominees and winners for the Nonexistent Tony Award for Best Original Song in a Musical are…
(Winners linked and underlined)
The 78th Annual Tony Awards in 2025
“Don’t Say I Didn’t (Warn You)” from Death Becomes Her
“Dead” from Dead Outlaw
“The Rainy Day We Met” from Maybe Happy Ending
“When You’re in Love” from Maybe Happy Ending
“Dear Bill” from Operation Mincemeat: A New Musical
The 77th Annual Tony Awards in 2024
“Eleven Days” from Here Lies Love
“Here Lies Love” from Here Lies Love
“Just Ask the Flowers” from Here Lies Love
“A Letter from Harry’s Mother” from Suffs
“Wait My Turn” from Suffs
The 76th Annual Tony Awards in 2023
“Father Time” from Kimberly Akimbo
“Great Adventure” from Kimberly Akimbo
“Independently Owned” from Shucked
“You Could’ve Knocked Me Over With a Feather” from Some Like It Hot
The 75th Annual Tony Awards in 2022
“Don’t Lose Ur Head” from SIX: The Musical
“Heart of Stone” from SIX: The Musical
“All You Wanna Do” from SIX: The Musical
“Precious Little Dream / AIDS Is G-d’s Punishment” from A Strange Loop
“Inner White Girl” from A Strange Loop

The 74th Annual Tony Awards in 2020
No award given
The 73rd Annual Tony Awards in 2019
“What I Know Now” from Beetlejuice
“Michael in the Bathroom” from Be More Chill
“Epic III” from Hadestown
“Way Down Hadestown” from Hadestown
The 72nd Annual Tony Awards in 2018
“Answer Me” from The Band’s Visit
“Omar Sharif” from The Band’s Visit
“Apex Predator” from Mean Girls (Drag me, Austin. I stand by this choice.)
“I’d Rather Be Me” from Mean Girls
“Someone Gets Hurt” from Mean Girls
The 71st Annual Tony Awards in 2017
“Waving Through a Window” from Dear Evan Hansen
“You Will Be Found” from Dear Evan Hansen
“Charming” from Natasha, Pierre & The Great Comet of 1812
“Dust and Ashes” from Natasha, Pierre & The Great Comet of 1812
“Prologue” from Natasha, Pierre & The Great Comet of 1812
The 70th Annual Tony Awards in 2016
“Asheville” from Bright Star
“My Shot” from Hamilton
“The Room Where It Happens” from Hamilton
“You’ll Be Back” from Hamilton
“She Used to Be Mine” from Waitress
The 69th Annual Tony Awards in 2015
“Days and Days” from Fun Home
“A Musical” from Something Rotten!
“A Confession” from The Visit
“Love and Love Alone” from The Visit (Yes! A rare tie!!!)
The 68th Annual Tony Awards in 2014
“Another Life” from The Bridges of Madison County
“Falling Into You” from The Bridges of Madison County
“To Build a Home” from The Bridges of Madison County
“Who We Are and Who We Want to Be” from The Bridges of Madison County
“You Learn to Live Without” from If/Then
More during the next lull in my review writing…

your 2019 picks are the ones I agree with the most in terms of winners and nominations. But I agree so enthusiastically with your selection of "Another Life" that i don't see the need to quibble about anything else.
I love that there was a tie for Best Song in 2015. There have been 10 ties in the history of the Tony Awards. In 1960 the nominees for Best Musical were: Fiorello!, Gypsy, Once Upon a Mattress and The Sound of Music. It was a tie between Fiorello! and The Sound of Music.